So, I have been a senior citizen now for about 6 months. At least at age 55 I qualify for senior benefits and prices at many places. I can get a "senior coffee" at McDonalds. I always wonder how old a "senior coffee" really is. At some restaurants I qualify for the senior discount. Also at the gym I get a lower price because I am 55 years old. Well, I might be getting older, but I don't want to fossilize, so a regular exercise routine helps with that. I also get a discount on my home insurance policy. So, there are financial benefits to getting older.
Edith and I are members of the Canadian Association of Retired Persons. It is called CARP for short. I always hope that as older people we are not seen to be always carping about something. Anyway, CARP is going through an image revision. They used to publish a magazine known as
The CARP News. Now it is much flashier and is called
Zoomer. Zoomer is a term that the new CARP director has coined for seniors. Apparently we do not like to be called seniors, or older people, or retired persons, or even baby boomers. He took the Boomers term and changed it to Zoomers.
I am fascinated by the way our culture glamourizes youthfulness. Getting older is now something to be avoided at all costs. The last issue of
Zoomer had an article about medical research that may be able to halt or reverse the aging process in the future. If some of these ideas work, we could stay the same age physically, and postpone death indefinitely. Much of the magazine focuses on how to keep looking younger and live like a much younger person would live.
Now me, I kind of like being 55. I am much more comfortable being 55 than I was being 25. I wouldn't want to go back to being 25 again. Being a good Mennonite, of course, I like the senior discounts, but it is more than that. I feel much calmer now. I don't need to prove anything to anybody. I don't need to wonder what God might have for me to do in life. I have already lived over 50% of it, so I have a pretty good idea. I know Edith better than I did at 25. Our marriage is richer and deeper than it was at 25. We have faced, and are facing challenges together and those shared experiences have deepened our relationship. I have friends that I have known for 30 years. It was impossible to have relationships like these at age 25.
I have memories of things that God has done in the past that give me hope for the future. I have thought about a miniscule amount of the really big questions in life, and have found answers that work for me for a few of the questions. I'm more convinced about a few things, and more puzzled and unsure about others. I'm more certain than ever that war is a real tragedy, and breaks the heart of God, whenever and wherever it happens. I'm more sure that we can do something about poverty in the world. I'm more certain that the church is God's program to bring change to the world. I am convinced that Jesus Christ was dead, then was raised to life, and is our living Lord and Saviour.
Last month I visited the graves of my parents. I haven't been there for a while. As I stood there on a Sunday afternoon, I thought about my life, and what God has given me opportunities to do in the 15 years since my last parent passed away. I had to say thank you to them for what they did to contribute to my life, to help prepare me for the opportunities that God has given me. I wanted to tell them how satisfying life is now. How much joy I find in life. Someday, in Heaven, I will get to tell them all about it. But in order to do that I need to die first. So, I think I will pass on the genetic alterations that I would need to halt or reverse the aging process. And who knows, 75 might be more enjoyable than 55!