
I want to more regularly take the time to chronicle what is happening in my life. I decided one way to do that would be to monthly write about the highs and lows that I feel would be appropriate to share.
A soul refresher this past month has been the new "patio/porch" furniture we got for our screened in sun room. We moved here two years ago, but never used the screened in area much--except for our cat. He uses it for his torture chambers. He brings mice and chipmunks in, and since it's enclosed, they can't get away. In the morning I sometimes find the parts he didn't want to eat and have to clean up after him. But that part is NOT the joy giver.
For Merle's and my June birthday gifts and Father's Day gifts, we decided to buy the furniture. I'm amazed how much more we use the room now. Most mornings we sit out in it to have our Bible reading and prayer together. We hear the birds much more and feel wind, sun and dew of God's out of doors. That enhances worship.
We've had company use it a lot too. Last week some of the VBS Teachers ate lunch in it the days they were here. Yesterday Rhoda Kakegamic and Rose Buck and I sat out in it and chatted while Zach and Albert, Rose's nephews, jumped on the trampoline.
Even when we're not using it, when I look out the dining room sliding doors that enter into the screened in area, I feel peaceful seeing those wicker chairs waiting.
Sometimes it's hard to know whether to spend money on nonessentials when so many people have so many needs. I struggled with that a bit when we talked of buying this furniture. We decided to also give more to a specific need.
That leads into the next Joy giver. Merle has done some research and been involved in meetings with people who do micro-lending in poor countries. Seeing his excitement and passion for it is a joy giver to me too.
Elaine was at camp last week. Dallas is this week. Seeing them thrive when they are away from us also gives me joy.
Grief givers--the biggest one is dealing with the consequences of failed marriages. Merle and I have had three couples very close to us, whose marriages have been deeply wounded because of adultery discovered when the couples were in their sixties. That has happened over a period of years. This past month we were impacted by some of the results of that again.
We are in our 50s. It gives us courage, joy, and hope to see couples older than us who are faithful to each other and obviously enjoying eachother and life. As Steve Green sings,"Let all who come behind us find us faithful!" Edith